If you want to aim for various ways into loving life, you must begin the quest by looking at yourself. Do you love what you see? You must understand that you are the captain of your own life's journey. So for you to be able to continue with what you have set your mind to do, you must understand how far you are willing to go and what are you willing to risk in order to make it to your destination.
This may be easier said than done. One's life becomes more challenging as years pass by. You will soon realize that life is a phase that you must conquer and sometimes a maze that you must understand every corner in order to know where to go.
Let Your Heart Lead You
This may sound a cliché but it is true. The most important thing that can lead you to the right destinations is through listening to your heart's desires. As you age, you will realize that life is too complex. There are times that your heart will be overpowered by anger or fear. There are many emotions that may hinder you to know what your heart is indeed telling you.
You must also know how to balance your intelligence and your emotions. This is the reason why you have the ability to think things through. This is why you have both capabilities in the first place. Your heart tells you what you want. Your mind balances everything by presenting you with your options and the advantages and disadvantages of certain decisions.
In the end, it will be a matter balancing what really is important and why. It may take years before you hone the act. But the idea here is to continue with your journey even if you feel like life is no longer giving you reasons to. There will definitely be times like that. But if you will succumb to the negative situation, you will lose all the hard work and preparation that you have already taken in order to reach where you are now.
Back to the Mirror
You may not always like what you see in the mirror. But it doesn't mean that you must turn your back on it. You must learn to accept who you are. This includes your ugliness and all your imperfections, as you love your beauty and all your strengths. You just have to learn how to balance everything to make things work the way you want them to.
Here are some considerations that you may want to think about in your quest to know yourself better and love your life more.
1. Everybody experiences problems. Not because you think that you are faced with a very disturbing dilemma, it is the end of the road for you. You must learn how to work things out. You must understand that you are a unique person and you have your own unique ways of solving whatever problems you are faced with each day.
2. As you face each problem that you encounter, you will ease up the situation and learn in the process. This will hone you to be a better person and a better judge. The next time you will face another problem, you will know better.
Keep a positive attitude towards loving life. It will make everything easier for you and will guide you to the right path as you come closer in achieving what you heart longs to gain.