Holidays

hi dear friends missed u ll, its been a week since my last post

actually i dont feel good these days im unhappy my friend situation is worst she is on Artificial Breathing System...May God help her

the past few days i was thinking alot about her and our memories

i dont feel like blogging these days i feel like i want to rest my mind and my thoughts for a while to get better feeling soon i hope ...i dont even get online these days .

By the way we are having Holidays these days for Muslims its Eid Al Adha (4 days) we call it the big feast .....Happy Feast to everyone

ill be away for a while i miss all of my Bloggers friends and their blogs too ill be back soon to get happiness from your Blogs and to learn more about life and happiness

Happy Feast
Merry christmas

Im optimistic....

My friend is doing a little bit better than before she feels us around but go unconcsious again its ok for me i accept that little prgogress .

water was removed from her lungs she breathing better than before .im optimistic i know she is not doing very very well but it can take days or months to be completely recovered

atleast im happing her health status moving forward not backward, i still have hope and prayers i feel she is gonna make it God is there thats enough for me

now im back to myself again after i was really so much stressed ....

I visited My Friend

i went to see my friend for the first time i couldnt see her not bcoz its not allwed bcoz i was emotinaly wrecked i met her family when i hugged her father he was crying and same with her sisters it was a hrd moment i felt dizzy and my legs were shaking i was not feeling that i can see her.

next day i went i saw her i talked to her i know she is still unconscious but i talked to her hoping that she maybe hearing me i told her "u were always strong and u have to be more strong and have faith and im sure u will overcome this and beat this situation your family and kids need u we all need u ...i love u"

but still she is in bad conditin even Doctors say it is so bad condition she needs a miracle to recover.....i believe that God will help her...he is the only one can do miracles. he is merciful too i believ whatever will happen is God'will we all have to accept what God wants.

all i can do these days are my prayers and my heart is with her. i feel im not able to do anything else.

Prayers to my dear friend

I was so excited this week one of my best friends had a baby boy , my best friends are 5 girls 2 of them since primary school and three since college. they are my sisters i dont have sisters i got only two brothers so i consider them my sisters we have very strong friendship that im so proud to have them in my life they are my childhood memories and my teenage memories we all been through everything together even we all got married in sequence and had kids same ages.
can u imagine how lucky we have eachother.

i went to visit her at hospital an congratulate her she was ok that was her second boy , today my firnd called and said that she is at Intensive Care coz she had Brain Thrombosis i was shocked i felt so much pain in my stomack i cried alot i fear that something could happen to her she is very good girl mom,daughter,wife , sister and friend she is so tender and kind very tender she lost her mom when she was a little girl i remember her once telling me when we were at college that she is going to be a great mother when she have kids and give them the best mother love and care that she was deprived from in her life....i remember when she calls all of our mothers on Motherday and bring them flowers and say they are all like my mother

she told me once im scared that i could die early some day and my son could face what i have faced and live his life with no mom ...OMG i cannot even type but i feel better sharing i want it all out she is in a comma now i pray that she recovers soon and get back to her 2 years old son and her new baby ohhh plz GOD save her and let her be better for her children's sake

me and my friends are in bad time its really hard time for us she is still 28 yrs old i pary GOD that you Bless her and save her plz she loves GOD so much she is a strong believer in GOD she prays knows her Islam and Quaran even when i used not to pray at college time she was the one who is behind me and tell me pary pray be close to GOD so GOD will be always there for u remeber GOD u will be surrounded with his Bless and Protection ....she is so goood

i love you dear so much my heart is with you i know u are strong and u will pass this hard time
my prayers and Doaa is with you

How to Communicate Better with Body Language Secrets

"I don't let my mouth say nothin' my head can't stand." Louis Armstrong

Since the 1970’s, learning how to communicate better has had a lot to do with understanding body language.

Julius Fast wrote a book entitled, Body Language in 1970. He talked about a new science called Kinesics. It opened the way to more studies and books on the subjects.
Today, the term Body Language is very common and understood as an important element of communication.

In fact, experts in the field of communication suggest that there is a rule that says that 7% of the meaning of what a person is saying comes from their words.

Interestingly, 38% is based on the tone of their voice. 55% of the meaning comes from the body language of the person that is speaking. This rule comes from research that was published in the late 1960’s.

Some now think that the percentages from this research might be slightly different. Nevertheless, the bottom line is still the same. If you don’t know the basics of body language, you are missing a valuable tool for learning how to communicate better. We speak body language on a subliminal level, without actually realizing that we are communicating through body talk.

1. Face
The most expressive part of your body is your face. When you enter a room if you feel nervous, your expression might make you look aloof or unfriendly.Smiling at the room is a sure-fire way to remove anyone’s doubts about your approachability. Smiling makes us look warm, open and confident.

2. Eyes
They say the eyes are the windows to the soul. They certainly give people clues about what we are feeling.A direct gaze towards someone can show interest- direct staring on the other hand can mean an intense dislike. Very little eye contact can show that you are shy.

3. Hands
Have you ever watched someone’s hand gestures when they are talking? Open hand gestures tend to make a person appear open and honest. Bringing hands together to a point can accent the point you are making.Wringing your hands or excessively moving your fingers and hands will give away nervousness. It can even make someone look dishonest- are they trying to hide something?

4. Posture
If you lean towards someone you are showing an interest in that person. If we are feeling low in confidence, we tend to slouch our shoulders and look down.Men and women use different body language. For instance, women will stand close to each other, hold eye contact with the person they are talking to and use gestures.Men make little effort to maintain eye contact and don’t rely on the use of gestures to communicate. Men and women can learn how to communicate better by observing the differences in their use of body language.

By Peter Murphy