Success and Happiness

Think The Same Thoughts As The MostEffective, Successful and Happy People, AndYou'll Get Exactly The Same Results In Your Life

"You Can Replace Fear, Doubt & FrustrationWith Confidence & Unstoppable Drive...Even If Nothing Has Ever Helped You Before"

Success is not the key to happiness. Happiness is the key to success. If you love what you are doing, you will be successful."Albert Schweitzer'

He has achieved success who has lived well, laughed often and loved much; who has gained the respect of intelligent men and the love of little children; who has filled his niche and accomplished his task; who has left the world better than he found it, whether by an improved poppy, a perfect poem, or a rescued soul; who has never lacked appreciation of earth's beauty or failed to express it; who has always looked for the best in others and given them the best he had; whose life was an inspiration; whose memory a benediction."Bessie Stanley"

The best remedy for those who are afraid, lonely or unhappy is to go outside, somewhere where they can be quiet, alone with the heavens, nature and God. Because only then does one feel that all is as it should be and that God wishes to see people happy, amidst the simple beauty of nature. "Anne Frank"

I Received Two Awards.....

My Friend Andrea ac associates is so generous really she awarded me two Awards at once im so much happy when i receive awards thats the Blogging good spirit to bond all together and encourage us to Blog more and still be there i consider this like Care and good friendships thats is so nice im loving it

Andrea's Blog is very special to me A Circle of Woman her posts and thoughts always inspires me and make me think more about myself as a woman and Human being.

Thanks Andrea for always remembering me im so much honored to have good Blogger friends like you and to have these two Awards

The first Award

The second Award

And now i would like to pass it to Good friends with and Great Blogs

1.Janice

2.Waterlearner

3.Gurushabad

4.Sam Chan

5.Darlene

6.Jean

7.Santa Claus

8.Zubli Zainordin

9.Life reflection

10.Haze

Congratulations my friends

The Rules for Being Human

1.You will receive a body. You may like it or hate it, but it will be yours for the entire period this time around.

2.You will learn lessons. You are enrolled in a fulltime informal school called life. Each day in this school you will have the opportunity to learn lessons. You may like the lessons or think them irrelevant and stupid.

3.There are no mistakes, only lessons. Growth is a process of trial and error, experimentation. The "failed" experiments are as much a part of the process as the experiment that ultimately "works."

4.A lesson is repeated until learned. A lesson will be presented to you in various forms until you have learned it. When you have learned it, you can go on to the next lesson.

5.Learning lessons does not end. There is no part of life that does not contain its lessons. If you are alive there are lessons to be learned.

6."There" is no better than "here." When your "there" has become a "here" you will simply obtain another "there" that will again look better than "here."

7.Others are merely mirrors of you. You cannot love or hate something about another person unless it reflects to you something you love or hate about yourself.

8.What you make of your life is up to you. You have all the tools and resources you need. What you do with them is up to you. The choice is yours.

9.Your answers lie inside you. The answer to life's questions lie inside you. All you need to do is look, listen, and trust.

10.This will often be forgotten, only to be remembered again.

(Cherie Carter-Scott)

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Be Strong My Friend

i was away on vacation when i got back i found out about the loss of janice's Brother my best blogger buddy Janice i felt sorry and im really sad i know how she is going through is hard but i want you my friend to be strong

i would love to tell her that your brother was brave and strong to handle this pain and illness

and my prayers to him he is free now free of his pain he is in a GOD's hands which is the most safe and happy place for him

i know its hard but my heart with you janice my love too and my prayers to your brother he is not in pain anymore that could make u feel good for his own sake

Be Strong My Friend ....GOD BLESS

YOU

Hi everyone im back i missed all the good friends and their Blogs too it always cheering me up reading your blogs ...im back it was a good vacation i had so much fun me and the kids and the family , the weather was incredible.

i got back home i was feeling so lazy coz i relaxed for many days ...:) (sometimes long vacation makes u get used to be pampered and relaxed more)

i was thinking of myself lately especially while im relaxing at this vacation i will post about my inner dialogue at this time

YOU why do u forget YOU , Do u have some time for... YOU

u always try to complete your duties for kids, family demands and to GOD, and all the daily routine activities and forget ....YOU

u always think of your goals and how to acieve them and set schedule for your daily activites for the house and the kids and for get YOU

and after u are done like most people skipping TV channels is this good enough for YOU

that doesnt considered as YOU time .....where is YOU

get new schedule or set new plans to YOU to connect more to the world by your soul and spirit

Bond with friends from everyspot on earth ....learn new things everyday u never heard of

seek more wisdom.....inspiration....knowledge.....positive thoughts...self improvement

Learn more things that can make YOU be a better YOU

Happy Feast-Happy Eid El Fatr

yesterday was the last day of Ramadan no fasting anymore i enjoyed this Holy month although i was so exausted coz of the changes in my daily activities and family regular invitations for breakfast (first meal at sunset after breakfast) but the spirit of the month was so good.

i blame myself alot of not doing all the good religious things (i did some good activities ) but i mean all by reading more Quran and more about Islam and lot of prayers im so sad i couldnt have the time but im sure next year in Ramadan ill try to do better for GOD worshiping.

today the first day of Eid El Fatr Happy Eid and Happy Feast to all the Muslims around the world

Eid El-Fatr is one the two major feasts in the Islamic calender
In Classical Arabic and all Arab world it is known as Eid El-Fatr ,that the Feast of Breakfast , as Muslims Celebrate the end of Ramadan in it They return to their old days of eating ,the normal days It is a three days feast.

In Egypt it is Called the Small Feast as its number of days similar than the Adah Feast "Four days" , Adah is the second feast in the muslim Calender.

we also have Eid cookies its so tasty we eat it at breakfast and start visiting Family, relatives and friends and give all kids money we call it (Eidya) so they buy toys or whatever they like kids keep getting eidya from everyone (Lucky them) they get rich on the first day and broke on the third day....:)

after meeting families we go out for fun , or travel for few days my plan this year is to go to my mother and celebrate for one week yes i added three extra days from my side.....with my family the first day was spent with my in-laws we had so much fun and had lunch outdoors it was lovely my kids enjoyed alot and me & dad too .

i will be away from blogging sphere for 1o days resting and spending time with family we will plan for this short vacation when i go to mom tomorrow meanwhile i wont access the internet.

ill try to visit all my favorite blogs today i will miss them and as soon as i get back ill let my blogger friends know ill send u members message. and visit your blogs to let u know im back.

I wish all the world to be blessed by GOD and live in peace and wish them happiness

The Secret of Happiness

A Motivational Story with Wisdom - The Secret of Happiness by Steve Brunkhorst

The old man shuffled slowly into the restaurant. With head tilted, and shoulders bent forward, he leaned on his trusty cane with each unhurried step.

His tattered cloth jacket, patched trousers, worn out shoes, and warm personality made him stand out from the usual Saturday morning breakfast crowd. Unforgettable were his pale blue eyes that sparkled like diamonds, large rosy cheeks, and thin lips held in a tight, steady smile.

He stopped, turned with his whole body, and winked at a little girl seated by the door. She flashed a big grin right back at him. A young waitress named Mary watched him shuffle toward a table by the window.

Mary ran over to him, and said, "Here, Sir. Let me give you a hand with that chair."

Without saying a word, he smiled and nodded a thank you. She pulled the chair away from the table. Steadying him with one arm, she helped him move in front of the chair, and get comfortably seated. Then she scooted the table up close to him, and leaned his cane against the table where he could reach it.

In a soft, clear voice he said, "Thank you, Miss. And bless you for your kind gestures."

"You're welcome, Sir." She replied. "And my name is Mary. I'll be back in a moment, and if you need anything at all in the mean time, just wave at me!"

After he had finished a hearty meal of pancakes, bacon, and hot lemon tea, Mary brought him the change from his ticket. He left it lay. She helped him up from his chair, and out from behind the table. She handed him his cane, and walked with him to the front door.

Holding the door open for him, she said, "Come back and see us, Sir!"

He turned with his whole body, winked a smile, and nodded a thank you. "You are very kind." he said softly.
When Mary went to clean his table, she almost fainted. Under his plate she found a business card, and a note scribbled on a napkin. Under the napkin was a one hundred dollar bill.
The note on the napkin read...

"Dear Mary, I respect you very much, and you respect yourself too. It shows by the way you treat others. You have found the secret of happiness. Your kind gestures will shine through those who meet you."

The man she had waited on was the owner of the restaurant where she worked. This was the first time that she, or any of his employees had ever seen him in person.

Note: This story is based on actual events experienced by a friend from St. Paul, Minnesota. The note is the exact wording on the napkin that she has kept in her scrap book for fifteen years.

Source:www.wow4u.com

I was very much touched by that story it shows how can you be happy if you act more KIND-NICE-HELPFUL-GENEROUS-SWEET with others.
you will will gain RESPECT from others and respect to yourself and this is a good and simple way leads to HAPPINESS and its for free u dont spend lot of money to buy stuff that makes u happy for a while but this Secret of Happinness make you HAPPY forever.

Wish all of you HAPPINESS

The Fight Against Child Abuse

In our times of darkness, children are the ones who will brighten us up. No matter what ordeals we have to endure in our daily lives, we know that we can overcome them the moment we set eyes on children. Their innocence and purity in them will always give us a sense of peacefulness and calm that is beyond words. And it goes without saying that life would be meaningless without seeing them smile, hearing them laugh and cry, and feeling their small and flawlessly gentle hands that want to reach out to us.


Yet, there are some who show no empathy and sensitivity towards these beautiful souls. Worse still, they would dunk themselves into physical violence and cruelty towards the children without even thinking twice. Such acts can deem someone to be worse than an animal, because even an animal has compassion and love for its young.

What is going on with this world? Why must such horrid acts be carried out? Why do these people ever exist in this world?





Please take this time to read this special message from us, and show your utmost support and sympathy towards the family of the late Nurin Jazlin, who passed away tragically and brutally at the age of only eight. Little Nurin Jazlin’s body was discovered in a gym bag on 17th September, one month after she was abducted.

Upon the discovery, she was seen to be in the most horrifying state ever. Her hair was short and curled up, when it was originally straight and long. Her body was pale and badly bruised from head to toe, and there were traces of foreign objects like brinjal and cucumber found in the virginal area of her body.
Parents of the deceased took a long time to acknowledge her death, but eventually did after all the thorough DNA tests had been carried out by the forensics department. Her body was finally buried on 21st September. Her father, Jazimin Abdul Jalil, had expressed his sorrow towards this tragedy, stating that whoever who caused her death was not a human being, but rather, an animal.

This was the result of an outrage of modesty (See Picture On The Right) caused by a man of age between 35 and 40, who was thought to be someone who enjoyed torturing people, particularly children. Along with him was a 23-year-old lady, who was apparently his partner in crime. The lady had been found and called for questioning by the Malaysian authorities, whereas the man has yet to be found. Hence, we are urging all of you here to play your part in finding this serial killer cum sexual offender and ensuring that justice is served to the deceased and her family.

If you know of the culprits’ whereabouts, keep us informed immediately, or directly inform her uncle, Jasni Abdul Jalil, via his blog, which he had specially created as a form of dedication to her.

Over the years, we have heard of children’s lives being taken away due to the evil doings of heartless adults. Nurin’s death was one of the most gruesome and tragic deaths that made many of us shocked, despaired and furious. Do you want more children to die in the hands of these sadistic people? Do you still wish to hear such saddening news of child abuse?
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Revenge

"An eye for an eye only make the whole world BLIND"...Ghandi

i know some people think that Reveng is the way to get their rights back as we see wars and terrorism these days for example

why dont we think more human and beleive that Revenge is not the key to solve problems it is the key to create problems

we all make mistakes sometimes on purpose sometimes not but do we have to correct mistakes by Revenge.

Jealousy could lead to Revenge why dont we clear our selves and dont get in such idea "Revenge"

Torturing people is not a cure to your pain

In wars killing people and kids in order to free others is not a human right

Revenge is always the weak pleasure of a little and narrow mind

dont go for it as pleasure or its one of your rights harming others or destroying them as a payback to what they did its not wise, only weak minds go for it to feed their sick minds with it

dont get mad get even ...let anger go...let hatred die.....destroy such idea....hating others and destroying them wont make the world a better place

Revenge converts a little right into a great wrong.

THINK POSITIVE

Please think more POSITIVE life is Good... make all your feelings and thoughts interact positively put them altogether in your MIND and HEART

BE more POLITE

BE more OPTIMISTIC

BE more SHARING

BE more KIND

BE more HONEST

BE more FREINDLY

Im sure eventually you will BE more HAPPY

LOVE more...CARE more....TRUST more....BELIEVE more....HELP more

You will LIVE more and be HAPPY

Replace all the NEGATIVE thoughts with POSITIVE thoughts

SUPER WOMAN

lately i am so much busy to get online and be in the blogging sphere as i used to do really many things just came up made me so busy with kids and house work.

By the way i dont work i never worked after graduating from college i choosed the Love and Marriage career what u think right choice or not....hehehehe (sometimes i doubt it)

but inspite i dont work i m so much busy with my kids , husband and the house , my helper was gone few months ago now there is one woman that comes once a week for cleaning up the house so i still have to run the house the rest of 6 days my hub is happy now no helper is around coz he feels more free and comfy with the new situation but im still looking for one but to find one that she is really satisfying is hard.

And the bright side i lost some KGs coz i work more and became more active and i sleep less (no time to eat as before) i find this like challenging myself im a SUPER WOMAN i keep saying u got some tasks for the day and for sure you are capable of doing all your duties and tasks thats like your job but the bad part is i dont get paid for it...:) but looking in depth of that matter i m getting paid now and will be more paid in future, im getting to see my kids are growing up everyday i help them to build up their personalities and i have fun with them as well.

Keeping the house clean and their clothes clean and cooking the best for them is the job im doing it with love and in order to be successful u have to love what u do.....ok i get bored some times with household chores and all that house work but dont all people get bored,stressesd and face many hectic days in their jobs as well ?

Its almost the same what i hope to be paid for in future is to see my sons are good , mom and dad be proud of them and wish they be grateful as i am to my parents now , i wish they give us back love , care and tenderness.

I like to encourage myself to say im a super woman maybe men wont recognize how much mothers really suffer some times and how is the big loads on her shoulder to take care of everything and most of other moms are also working so they arer really super SUPERWOMEN too

Finally im doing that and im happy, sometimes i feel bored coz same routine but the smile on my sons faces wipes away any negatrive feelings.

I thank u GOD for what i have i pray u give me the strength to be always there for my family taking care of everything around them providing them LOVE and CARE