You can Have Fun by yourself

For sure we all get so bored sometimes especially from hectic days and daily routines

i was searching and looking for how to have fun if your are bored

and how to fun by yourself u dont need to always depend on others or friends to make u feel better u can enjoy many things by yourself here are few examples

1.Have you caught up on everything you need to catch up on? The best thing about "me time" is you're not going to have any interruptions. So, catch up on that English paper, study for that history test next week and work on that science project. Use this time to your advantage.

2.Go outside and enjoy nature. You'll be surprise how fun and relaxing watching the clouds go by can be.

3.Pamper yourself. Since you're by yourself, now you can finally give yourself that manicure and pedicure.

4.Take lots of crazy-random pictures. Take the most random pictures of yourself; pictures of your feet, pictures of you acting silly and sticking your tongue out or the kitchen sink. This is a great way to just have fun!

5.Read a book! Find a nice comfy spot, with a cold glass of sweet tea and read, read, read! It doesn't even have to be a book, it can be the latest issue of a magazine.

6.Pop in a movie, make some popcorn and have a "movie night".

7.Experiment in the kitchen. Make a new fruit smoothie or funny shaped pancake! Let your inner chef be revealed!

8.Turn on some music and dance in front of the mirror. or Exercise.

9.Go in your closet and mix and match your clothes. You can have fun just playing dress-up.

10.Go on the Internet and re-do your Myspace page or website, play with your Neopets, play games, catch up on the latest celebrity gossip on-line .

11.Write in your notebook. Write a poem, draw a picture, write a letter to someone (or even yourself), make a list of things you want to do in your life or just write down a shopping list.

12.Reorganize your room!

13.Do you have a pet? Go walk your dog.

14.Make a scrap book.

15.Call someone you may haven't heard from in a while.

source:wikihow

Thats what i do mostly to have fun by myself 5- 6-7-8-9-10-12

so if you have more suggestions to have Fun by yourself please share

New Look Of My House

Recently i have been so busy with some new things to do i was re-arranging the furniture in my house since six years nothing was really moved from its place it was kind of boring i was busy with my pregnancy and having my babies motherhood is a full time job.

so i decided in one day that i want to moove the furniture even though its huge and heavy but i got my helper to help me out and it was successfully done , my house looked different and wider and it was really much better compared with before ,my husband and the kids loved the new look of the house and were so much happy and excited.

that gave me more encouragement to focus on my house decorations ohh i was too bad neglected my house for a long time, one of the things that really can overcome being bored is to re-organize your stuff or re-arrange (ill post soon about fun things to do when you feel bored )

it was fun having new look of your house and add this nice touch of beauty with some new things such as new flowers or new table cloth new household stuff it was really cheering.

if i get bored with some of old decoration peices or table lamps i dont throw them away i just store them properly and use the other new ones so in future if get bored again i can change and feel like i miss them .

i waited for my friends and family to visit ...they were really impressed and said that is a way much better than before i was so happy to hear that now everyday when i wake up and have my morning tea i enjoy it while im looking to the new changes and feel like im having a good morning.

thats why i was little bit away from Blogging sphere lately but now i feel refreshed after i was exausted doing all changes and also arranging wardrobes with winter clothes and washing summer clothes storing them but still i have more things to do with my drawers i have many drawers in each room they are all in big mess but im taking a rest for couple of weeks and then start or i may do only one drawer evrey day.

its fun to have new look for your house but i never forget about my new inner look everyday trying to be a better MOM-DAUGHTER-WIFE-SISTER-WOMAN-FRIEND and HUMAN BEING
so i also think everyday of cahnging my thoughts manners and spirit to the best i could ,in order to be good and happy

Dreams of Your Life can be True

we all are Dreamers we dream every single day every moment its all inside our heads and hearts but what we do about those dreams here comes the big question its fun to dream its easy to dream Is it hard or easy to make dreams come true?

i beleive its sometimes hard and sometimes easy, like fate is part of life and has important role too but still we have to be Positive dreamers and accept all the events we face in our lives and stick to our dreams never let it go.face life challenges with Brave hearts.

on every stage of our lives there must be dreams came true and some did not but remeber your dreams changes according to life's changes too
Dreaming is important coz if you dont dream you have no visions or ability to see your self in future and probably you would get so bored in your life coz there is no path for you to moove on

So, to make a dream come true you got to have the vision to begin with, Next is belief.

You have to believe in yourself more than anything else coz sometimes you may find everybody is aginst your dreams, help yourself dont loose your strength.

Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart. Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens.(Carl Jung)

Finally is action. Persistent and committment to what you do for achieving the Dreams of your life will make your dreams come true , If something isn't working, change and refine that aspect until it works keep doing all your best dont give up your dreams under any circumstances .

Dreams pass into the reality of action. From the actions stems the dream again; and this interdependence produces the highest form of living.
Dreams are necessary to life.
(Anais Nin)

The key is to never let go of your vision, this is your guiding light. Hold onto it no matter what challenges come your way. Believe in God and in yourself, have more faith so you can achieve what you are dreaming about, you will wim Success and Happiness

In life, many thoughts are born in the course of a moment, an hour, a day. Some are dreams, some visions. Often, we are unable to distinguish between them. To some, they are the same; however, not all dreams are visions. Much energy is lost in fanciful dreams that never bear fruit. But visions are messages from the Great Spirit, each for a different purpose in life. Consequently, one person's vision may not be that of another. To have a vision, one must be prepared to receive it, and when it comes, to accept it. Thus when these inner urges become reality, only then can visions be fulfilled. The spiritual side of life knows everyone's heart and who to trust. How could a vision ever be given to someone to harbor if that person could not be trusted to carry it out. The message is simple: commitment precedes vision.(High Eagle)

Wishing all your Dreams come true

How To Find True Happiness

Do you think its hard to find or realize true hapinness ? or Is there true happiness that last forever?



Do you beleive that you can make yourself happy not money or love or people can?


i think how to Find True happiness is by evaluating the ourselves by knowing what is good and bad within ourselves, how we accept actions and react to it how to see the world from our hearts, atleast in happiness matter we can avoid using calculations coz it is a matter of feeling which our hearts does this feeling so let us use our hearts to find true happiness that lies inside ourselves.


Very little is needed to make a happy life; it is all within yourself, in your way of thinking ( Marcus Aurelius)

Have more confidence in yourself and be more able to deal with life's issues using the best ways to overcome what you are going through


Believe in yourself more and admit your mistakes and negative points try to replace them with the best you can learn or cahnge in yourself.

We are built to conquer environment, solve problems, achieve goals, and we find no real satisfaction or happiness in life without obstacles to conquer and goals to achieve (Maxwell Maltz)

Ask most people how to find true happiness and what would make them happy, and they would tell you that a promotion, a new car,being rich, or just getting married would give them true happiness. it will make them happy for sure but only for a while that is not True Happiness .

They are blinded by their belief that real happiness is something that the world provides. In reality, True Happiness depends on your outlook in life. It comes from within.

We act as though comfort and luxury were the chief requirements of life, when all that we need to make us really happy is something to be enthusiastic about. (Charles Kingsle)


True happiness is inside everyone but people who dont feel it coz they dont want to feel it by their hearts . they want to see objects or touch objects , money in their hands to make them happy.

we better search for True Happiness from inside and reveal it to the outside.

Get more Traffic and Readers with Blog Rush

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Nothing to loose if you join Blog Rush on the contrary you will win Traffic and more Readers

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Ras Malai Recipe

Ras Malai is a traditional indian dessert it is my favorite ....soo delicious ...i was looking for the recipe but for easy one bcoz the traditional recipe of ras malai one was not easy for me ....using powder milk is easier and fast and tasty too i tried it before.

i am sharing this recipe coz i enjoy it alot and hope if you try it and enjoy it as well, it is also good for kids .

why not to break our cooking routine by adding and trying new recipes from once in a while that is fun some recipes we would like and some we would not i love to try new recipes all the time .

when i feel bored i can cook new dish to experiment how it tastes like.

i love Pakistani and indian food -italian and chinese -egyptian and arabic food

Ingredients:

1. Powder milk 1 cup

2.one egg Nos.

3.1 oil teaspoon.

4.Baking Powder 1/4 teaspoon

5.Milk 1 litre

6.Sugar 6 tablesppons

7.Pistachios chopped (unsalted) 2 tablesppon

8.Cardamom 1 pinch

Instructions:

1.Mix the powdered milk, egg, oil, baking powder.

2.Once the dough is done mold it into small balls and then flatten the balls slightly.

3.Boil the milk with sugar and cardmom powder.

4.As soon as the milk starts boiling add the boils in it.

5.The balls will tend to swell up , lower the the heat to simmer.

6.Cook the milk with the balls for another 8-10 minutes.

7.Remove from heat let it cool.

8.Put it in the fridge.

9.Just before serving add some pistachios and sprinkle some kewra water

Stress

Most of us or maybe all of us keep complaining that we are stressed at work , home or about financial matters , Family problems but that is normal to happen may be we have no self involvement in this kind of stress because it is very simple this is what happens in life we cannot stop it or control it. so we accept this kind of stress and try to deal with it.

i mean self involvement that we dont do actions or behave in some ways that leads us to be stressed, and i keep thinking that me or you should not bring stress to ourselves for example you might do some actions that you can lie about later and feel very shameful of hiding it so you expose yourself to be stressed you caused this stress you are involved to bring stress to yourself.

"It's not stress that kills us, it is our reaction to it." Hans Selye

actions like Gossip, cheating , telling lies and hiding what you do, all that makes you worring that someone could discover what you have done or said, hard speech or arguments also make you regret that you hurt somebody and you overreacted and live with stress of feeling guilty.

"Stress: we all have some stress in our lives, some of us have more, some of us have less stress. But if stress is allowed to overtake our lives then serious implications can result." Catherine Pulsifer

I do myself a greater injury in lying than I do him of whom I tell a lie. - Michel de Montaigne

A Gift of Love

A Motivational Story with Wisdom - A Gift of Love

By Author Unknown

"Can I see my baby?" the happy new mother asked. When the bundle was nestled in her arms and she moved the fold of cloth to look upon his tiny face, she gasped. The doctor turned quickly and looked out the tall hospital window. The baby had been born without ears. Time proved that the baby's hearing was perfect. It was only his appearance that was marred.

When he rushed home from school one day and flung himself into his mother's arms, she sighed, knowing that his life was to be a succession of heartbreaks.

He blurted out the tragedy. "A boy, a big boy...called me a freak." He grew up, handsome for his misfortune. A favorite with his fellow students, he might have been class president, but for that. He developed a gift, a talent for literature and music. "But you might mingle with other young people," his mother reproved him, but felt a kindness in her heart.

The boy's father had a session with the family physician. Could nothing be done? "I believe I could graft on a pair of outer ears, if they could be procured" the doctor decided. So the search began for a person who would make such a sacrifice for a young man. Two years went by. Then, "You are going to the hospital, son. Mother and I have someone who will donate the ears you need. But it's a secret" said the father.

The operation was a brilliant success, and a new person emerged. His talents blossomed into genius, and school and college became a series of triumphs. Later he married and entered the diplomatic service. "But I must know!" He urged his father. "Who gave so much for me? I could never do enough for him."

"I do not believe you could," said the father, "but the agreement was that you are not to know...not yet." The years kept their profound secret, but the day did come . . . one of the darkest days that ever pass through a son. He stood with his father over his mother's casket. Slowly, tenderly, the father stretched forth a hand and raised the thick, reddish-brown hair to reveal that the mother had no outer ears.

"Mother said she was glad she never let her hair be cut," he whispered gently, "and nobody ever thought mother less beautiful, did they?"

Real beauty lies not in the physical appearance, but in the heart.

Real treasure lies not in what that can be seen, but

but what that cannot be seen.

Real love lies not in what is done and known,

but in what that is done but not known.

Source:Internet