Puppets Hand Show

My friend sent me that video i liked it alot its so nice it made smile i hope u all like it

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DO GOOD.........FEEL GOOD (Part Two)

As to the kindness you mention, I wish I could have been of more service to you than I have been, but if I had, the only thanks that I should desire are that you would always be ready to serve any other person that may need your assistance, and so let good offices go around,for humankind are all of a family. As for my own part,when I am employed in serving others I do not look upon myself as conferring favors but paying debts. Benjamin Franklin

The time is always right to do what is right. Martin Luther King, Jr.

No one is useless in this world who lightens the burden of it to anyone else.
Charles Dickens

It is very important to raise up our children as parents , family and adults teaching them how to be HELPFUL and how to be a good person that has a value in community in future

The first step is to be a GOOD MODEL when u help others let your children be involved let them see what are you doing...... be a good example talk to them about being helpful why are you helping poeple.
let them grow up with good HEARTS teach them how to help their brothers and sisters , parents, friends, needy people , and go for volunteering , and donating many ways to help others .

I started doing that with my son ......One day we collected his toys that he is not playing with anymore , i started asking him

*Do you play with these toys?

*no mom im feelling bored with them, he answered.

*ok, what u think of giving them away to someone who might be happy playing with those toys and not feeling bored with them?

he paused for a while like the idea was not ok with him to give away his toys

*but they are mine mom!!!! ......

*honey you are keeping them not using them anymore there are other kids their parents cannot afford to buy them toys, i replied if u help them to have toys u will make them happy

*why mommy they cannot afford thats not fair they dont have toys i think their parents are not good he said

*no dear their parents are good but they dont have enough money........
in this world people are not the same or look the same or have the same .....some people can have more things that we do have .......and others have less than we got ....and many many more people have nothing ....

so its our role to give those people help by many ways by giving them what we keep and dont use they will use it or by donating money that they can eat and drink and find place to live in.

*then mom can i help those people i feel too bad for them ....when i grow up ill give them whatever i have

* i was so much touched ...... and said u know why your parents can buy you toys ?

*why?

*bcoz we help needy people that s a why GOD blesses us and make us able to buy you toys or whatever u want
if we dont help others GOD may not like that and will not make us able to buy u new toys ...so what u think?

* mom ill go now and collect the toys im not using so we can give it to other kids he replied so fast ( i think he was scared of not having new toys!!!!)

*i called the son of the building guard they are poor people ......i wanted my son to learn not only by words or speech but by seeing a good example .and then the boy came up he is 11 years old my......i told my son you tell him i got somethings that u may like a lot to let him experience this by doing it himself ............and he handed him the toys in a bag .....we saw a big big SMILE on his face he was so much thrilled and he kept thanking us alot.

*I told my son did u see how happy he was ...my son smiled yes mom im so much happy that he is happy.

*Honey in order to satisfy GOD and make him pleased ,we have to help others .........your brother, family, friends and who ever needs yourhelp and remember when u DO GOOD u will FEEL GOOD

Helping others, that's the main thing.The only way for us to help ourselves is to help others and to listen to each other's stories. Eli Wiesel

The only ones among you who will be really happy are those who will have sought and found how to serve.
Albert Schweitzer

Wait For The Brick

A young and successful executive was traveling down a neighborhood street, going a bit too fast in his new Jaguar. He was watching for kids darting out from between parked cars and slowed down when he thought he saw something.

As his car passed, no children appeared. Instead, a brick smashed into the Jag's side door! He slammed on the brakes and drove the Jag back to the spot where the brick had been thrown. The angry driver then jumped out of the car, grabbed the nearest kid and pushed him up against a parked car, shouting,

"What was that all about and who are you?
Just what the heck are you doing?
That's a new car and that brick you threw is going to cost a lot of money.
Why did you do it?"

The young boy was apologetic. "Please mister ... please, I'm sorry... I didn't know what else to do," he pleaded."I threw the brick because no one else would stop..."

With tears dripping down his face and off his chin, the youth pointed to a spot just around a parked car."It's my brother," he said."He rolled off the curb and fell out of his wheelchair and I can't lift him up."

Now sobbing, the boy asked the stunned executive, "Would you please help me get him back into his wheelchair? He's hurt and he's too heavy for me.
"Moved beyond words, the driver tried to swallow the rapidly swelling lump in his throat. He hurriedly lifted the handicapped boy back into the wheelchair, then took out his fancy handkerchief and dabbed at the fresh scrapes and cuts.
A quick look told him everything was going to be okay.

"Thank you and may God bless you," the grateful child told the stranger.Too shook up for words, the man simply watched the little boy push his wheelchair-bound brother down the sidewalk toward their home.
It was a long, slow walk back to the Jaguar. The damage was very noticeable, but the driver never bothered to repair the dented side door.

He kept the dent there to remind him of this message: Don't go through life so fast that someone has to throw a brick at you to get your attention!


God whispers in our souls and speaks to our hearts. Sometimes when we don't have time to listen, He has to throw a brick at us.


It's our choice: Listen to the whisper ... or wait for the brick!

Source:www.indianchild.com

DO GOOD......... FEEL GOOD (Part one)

New research shows that helping others may be the key to happiness.


I read this article on msn health & fitness by Lisa Farino

Here are some points from the article

“When you’re experiencing compassion, benevolence, and kindness, they push aside the negative emotions,” says Post. “One of the best ways to overcome stress is to do something to help someone else.”

Even better, feeling good and doing good can combine to create a positive feedback loop, where doing good helps us to feel good and feeling good also makes us more likely to do good.

“Numerous studies have found that happy people are more helpful," says Dr. David Myers, a social psychologist at Hope College and author of The Pursuit of Happiness.

while helping others can be a great antidote to the mild depression, stress, and anxiety that is a normal part of the ups and downs daily life, Post emphasizes that it’s not a cure for severe depression. “If you are clinically

How to help others—and yourself

Volunteer. Research shows that people who volunteer just two hours per week (about 100 hours per year) have better physical health and are less depressed.

Donate. It doesn’t have to be a lot of money. Toss change into coffee cans at cash registers or support local organizations by buying a raffle ticket. Look for opportunities to give within your means. You’ll help make the world a better place and make yourself feel better too.

Listen. Sometimes all others need is someone to lend a sympathetic ear to make them feel heard, cared for and loved.

Make other people (and yourself) smile. The easiest way to make other people happy is to act happy yourself, even if it’s not how you feel. “Sometimes we can act ourselves into a way of thinking,” says Myers. “So like the old song says, 'Put on a happy face.' Talk as if you have self-esteem and are outgoing and optimistic. Going through the motions can awaken the emotions.”

Do u have more suggestions on How to help others and yourself???

Nice Matters Award

My best Blogger friend janice is very nice person very thoughtful always remember awarding me , she is a regular reader to my blog i thank her for that and for my other bloggers friends that also reads my blog all of u inspired me for blogging and motivates me more to find nice stuff we share all together


Thank you janice of thinking of me as anice person and by the way u deserve that award for 100 times not only five times coz you are a nice person and friend with many bloggers.

According to the originator of the Nice Matters award it is intended for “those that are just nice people,good blog friends, and those that inspire good feelings and inspiration! Those that care about others, that are there to lend support, or those that are just a positive influence in our blogging world!” For those receiving the award, you may like to pass on the award to 7 whom you think deserves it.

Now its my turn to reward the bloggers that are nice to me and inspire me, im glad to read their blogs i learn every day something new with your blogs thats a very nice and respectable communication with you coz we share true feelings and wise topics reminding me us to be better person.

Nice Matters Award goes to nice bloggers :

1) Janice ( im rewarding u back coz you are a true blogger friend and very nice to me im so happy that i met you and your lovely kids)

2)Gurushabad

3)Sam chan ( i know janice has rewared him but ill do it again coz he is nice to me too by visiting and leaving meaningful comments thx sam)

4)Waterlearner

5)Darlene

6)Ac associates

7)Zublizainordin

Congratulations to all of u wishing that blogging bond to last forever "nice bloggers"


A special thank to Zublizainordin he rewarded me back with the nice Award
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Angels

whenever i see babies or little kids and see a smile on their face i smile too and feel really happy seeing them so i added those pictures hoping to give u a smile back.

i smile coz they look so innocent and they are angels that i cannot resist my self holding them i remeber when i was younger and when some families have babies ,when they cry i always embrace them and pamper them they fall asleep or stop crying.

i remeber this incident it was so nice and weird too, i saw a little boy he was about 18 months in the street with his parents he was so cute, he was crying alot so hard that i saw his parents are so much concerned, they didnt know how to calm him down.

i stopped next to them and offered my help to carry the baby im a stranger to him he should have gone more mad but he saw me opening my arms to hold him he stopped crying and opened his arms towards me in order to carry him.

i held him i felt a connection that was so weird to me i embraced him and started to play and tickle, i saw him smiling and laughing to the funny words i was pampering him with , his parents were astonished alot but they were very happy to see him smiling ....my mom was so impressed she told me maybe the little boy he felt that deep in my heart true love to children ...that could be the connection!!!!!!

i dunno i still wonder why inspite i was a stranger he felt peace and calm with me is there possible any connections with people or kids we dont know and when we meet them we feel like we know them very well......

can u tell me what u think?

Life is GOOD

*To affect the quality of the day; that is the art of life.(Thoreau, Henry David)


*An intellectual improvement arises from leisure.(Johnson, Samuel)


*He who knows enough is enough will always have enough.(Lao -tzu)


*We do not remember days, we remember moments.(Pavese, Cesare )


*Money will come when you are doing the right thing.(Phillips, Mike)


*Give light, and the darkness will disappear of itself.(Erasmus )


*Kindness is the noblest weapon to conquer with.(American Proverb)

source:followyourdreams.com


*It doesnt matter how long you will live ....it matters how you will live....(by me)


can u tell me which quote touched your heart?

How do you see COLORS???

There is no doubt that colors do affect our moods and feelings for example for baby's room parents always tend to paint the walls with white,pink or blue, light colors mostly bcoz the baby can get a nice and quiet sleep it affects the baby's mood.

Another example i watched on TV last week that people who eats on blue dishes have good appetite and eat more than eating on white dishes as the blue color affects their appetite

I see colors in my own way as i translate them according the colors i love and feel the sense of the impact on my mood its not exactly what it refers to its about symbols , nature, views and how i interpret them to myself

BLUE .....spirit of life...happiness.......(SEA)

RED......love...(HEART)

GREEN ....wealth and luck....(DOLLARS$$$)

BLACK....self confidence......(NIGHT)

YELLOW.......motherhood.......Gving.....(SUN)

ORANGE....Fun.....Laugh

FUCHSIA.....Beauty......(BARBIE DOLL)

DARK RED.......be wise/Wisdom

LIGHT BLUE......Hope....happiness.........peace.......(SKY)

DARK BLUE.....Encouragement....Empowerment

LIGHT PINK .....innocence.....young

WHITE.....Active....Energetic.....workout.....(DAY)

SILVER......Inspiration....Dreams

GOLD.......SHopping......(GOLD)

BEIGE......Simplicity

BROWN........Hungry...Eating.....(FOOD)

so can u tell me what is your favorite colors and how do u see them?

Positive Thinking in just 7 steps

by Jeff Cohen:

Positive thinking can help you realize things that you never thought possible.It is always best to set up a personal goal that you can accomplish in the prescribed time. Having a correct and positive attitude in whatever you are doing will make things easier and even enjoyable.

Here are some tips on how to make it through the week while sitting in your favorite couch.

1. Be passionate about your dreams in life.
Passionate talk is cheap. Action ensures a brighter future. Without action, passion is void. Adding an element of action will turbo charge the achievement of your goals and aspirations in life.

A dream starts in your mind and your action helps make your dream a reality.

2. Make a commitment.
Make a commitment to yourself, family members, and friends. Their support, coupled with your commitment, will help create the kind of life you really desire.
Make a commitment from your heart and soul, never from a position of fear. You will be amazed at the transformation in your life the moment you set to do something.

3. Embrace the idea that each moment is perfect regardless of its outcome.
Every time you have a bright idea that may initially appear impossible to do, why not give it a shot and see if it will work.
When confronted with a difficult task, fear stops people in their tracks. Overcome your fear and you will be surprised to see that there are numerous ways to get the task done in time. If you are not pleased with the outcome, learn from the experience and be flexible enough to make the appropriate adjustments.

4. Be grateful.
Be thankful of what you currently have. Learn to maximize the resources that you have. Slipping into neediness will become less of a habit when you repeatedly shift towards gratitude and move away from poverty consciousness.

5. Inject enthusiasm in your daily activities.
Enthusiasm invites feelings of abundance. Never dwell on thoughts that stimulate feelings of scarcity and poverty.

6. Have a sense of humor.
Do not take life seriously! Learn to laugh at yourself. Loosen up! I have yet to see a comedian go hungry, although his jokes are as 'old as great-grandma'. Life has so much to offer for you to wallow in self-pity.

7. Believe that you are the architect of your destiny.
You are the architect of your life. You draw your own blueprint. With this, you can aspire to live an authentic life.
There is no end to how much you can accomplish in a lifetime. Think big and shoot for the moon! Enjoy life and sustain positive thoughts. Watch everything flow in perfect precision. Take the initial step, have a positive attitude!

Source:www.solveyourproblem.com

Benefits Of Laughter

Laugh...laugh .....laugh....why dont we get addicted to laughing check out what i found about how can laughter make your life better and plz try to laugh as much as you can ...nothing worth your sadness or tears so laugh...laugh and Feel Happy

The many benefits of laughter

1. When you make fun of yourself, you disempower those who would make fun of you and disarm possible confrontations.

2. Laughter dissolves tension, stress, anxiety, irritation, anger, grief, and depression. Like crying, laughter lowers inhibitions, allowing the release of pent-up emotions. After a hearty bout of laughter, you will experience a sense of well-being. Simply put, he who laughs, lasts. After all, if you can laugh at it, you can live with it. Remember, a person without a sense of humor is like a car without shock absorbers.

3. Medical researches have found that laughter boosts the immune system. The study of how behavior and the brain affect the immune system is called psychoneuroimmunology. Though still in its infancy, this science is rapidly gaining much attention as mankind strives to understand the mind-body relationship.

4. Laughter reduces pain by releasing endorphins that are more potent than equivalent amounts of morphine.

5. Humor helps integrate both hemispheres of our brain, for the left hemisphere is used to decipher the verbal content of a joke while the right hemisphere interprets whether it is funny or not.

6. Laughter adds spice to life; it is to life what salt is to a hard-boiled egg.

7. Develop your sense of humor and you will find you are more productive, a better communicator, and a superior team player.

8. Everyone loves someone who can make them laugh. The more you share your sense of humor, the more friends you will have.

9. Humor brings the balance we need to get through the turbulence of life comfortably.

10. Laughter is even equivalent to a small amount of exercise. It massages all the organs of the body, according to Dr. James Walsh.

11. A sense of humor can help you accept the inevitable, rise to any challenge, handle the unexpected with ease, and come out of any difficulty smiling.

The most wasted day is that in which we have not laughed. Don't wait until you are sick before you begin practicing laughter therapy. Start today by renting comedy classics from your video store, borrowing humorous books from the library, attending comedy clubs or watching comics on TV, and exchanging jokes with family members, friends, and coworkers. If you are visiting someone in the hospital, why not bring funny greeting cards and humorous books instead of flowers?

so what u think of the benefits of laughter?

Source:Chuck Gallozzi

Happy Birthday ...To Me...

Today is my birthday... every year i celebrate it in different way when i was younger ...(im still Young...:)..) i used to make parties at home or celebrate outdoors ...now im mom i do focus to make parties for my kids ...i think celebrating your own birthday is according to what u prefer for that day ...i mean thats my day i have to choose what i want to do ....im happy this birthday i got some nice gifts from my family ...very nice to be remebered not only gifts make me happy but really some nice calls , messages and cards are quite enough for me. and i celebrate it with new way for me.

Really the deep meaning of Birthdays is to be surrounded with people u love and to be remebered by people that are not that close to u ... thats would surprise u that they remembered. thank u my family and friends and everyone who really care for me my big gif is to have u around me thank u GOD for that.

Now i was thinking every year i have accomplished some important steps thats why i remember my birthday the day i was born to this world ....im a human being born to live by working, communicating, sharing, loving , ....etc what is my role in life? once i know what im resposible for every year new resposibilities and new dreams for the new year i have to do more and more in order to be appreciating that bless being BORN and have a LIFE .

Im scared to grow up and im approaching to b 3o ....when i was a kid i was so much happy im growing up i want to be a young lady i felt that was my happiness back then and these were my best times of life to be a child no worries at alll just playing and fun (except for the school part )
now i fear to be a big lady.

last couple of years i was getting worried coz im now close to be 30 leaving the age of twenties ....my thoughts were like most girls do think of ...my outer looks scared to face aging and kept thinking of facial products to maintain my look...thats not bad to take care of how we look but not by an obssessive way like spending so much money for fighting aging or taking more care about outer beauty that has to fade some day i cannot fight or stop time so why the waste of timing then for all these worries.(Every age pahse has its beauty and its good times ....i hope to experience all the phases then ill be lucky)

This year i thank God for having a new year to my life in order to contribute in this world by being a friend, daughter, sister, wife and mother this is how i contribute to this world by being all that.
plus my spending more time for taking very good care of my INNER BEAUTY that will never go the more it grows up good the more i will be happy...satisfied...loved more....remember by every one
this is my new plan or goal this year is to focus more on my inner beauty by improving my self ........mind.....heart.....speech.......read about life....be more wise ......and aapreciate everything i have ...thats how i celebrated my birthday by setting goals and dreams i hopefully can achieve by the hard work and GOD's bless...

..........and what u think of this celebration?

Third Blogging Award

Another award i got it yesterday from a a nice blogger who is known by everyone on my blog log is Zublizainordin thx alot for that award u really made me feel happy too my friend.

his message ..."soon your birthday. In honoring you as a superbly fine blogger, acknowledging your blogs and appreciating your sharing of vital and valuable information in your postings, please accept this award Zubli Zainordin"

im so lucky this week i got two awards thx to my friends , thx Zubli for your kind words that encourage me for more blogging ........You do have this gift and talent is the words and how to express and write your feelings and thoughts i always admired that talent GOD bless you ........ here where i found my award

i liked the badge too looks really nice

now i think i want to give some friends that award

i will start with my dear friend

1)Janice

2)Water Learner

3)Sam Chan

4)Darlene

5)AC Associates

6)santa claus

i think my friends are now lucky as i am they got two awards too this weekend

Second Blogging Award

My dear Friend Janice have awarded me as a Thoughtful Blogger this is my second award by Janice she is such a dear friend Lovely Mother , Friend and Young Lady im so happy for that award coz it shows the real meaning of Blogging is to meet new and honest friends .

im so happy Janice i met u and your adorable kids that i love them very much , i wanna tell u i appreciate everytime u remeber me or visit my blog leaving comments and shouts at my cbox , it is very clear to me how adorable and great woman you are by caring alot to your friends even if they are so much away from u ...for me that what i got out of blogging fun and cool friends

"that award i got it from janice few days ago but i didnt log on so sorry jan for not noticing."

i would love to award some other friends and cool bloggers too

1)Zublizainordin: one of the best bloggers ... total happiness ...if u want to learn more about you will be finding happiness there...he also give people happiness.

2)Gurushabad: his a very thoughtful blogger too he knows exactly what he is seeking for and gives many meaningful posts that i learn from everyday . he is a knowledge seeker ohis blog is one of my favorites full of wisdom.

3)Sam Chan: this another blog so inspiring and u can larn more about life there i love that blog too its where u can acquire wisdom and especially i love the quotes that was so common between me and sam chan.

4)Darlene: she is a sweet frined very simple and nice blog, she blogs about her daily life and whenever i read her posts i feel i get to know her more a woman of nice feelings and passionate.

5)AC Associates: one of the new blogs i met this month actually i loved it from the very first sight coz i felt the posts and what was written full of passion , honesty and i liked her style.

Congratulations to all ! You can find the complete details and meanings of the awards here.

Empower your Will Power

Its always good to read about random topics that can add to our information and we learn more about, the internet for me is the most convenient place that u can look for whatever u want its like a library .

as i always surf and find interesting Tips , Articles, Stories and information about topics that can encourage us to be more better persons by improving our inner beauty (as i call it)

that is the aim of my blog to be a better person by reading more about life and ways of self improvement ...its like a journey full of adventures ...learning, reading , sharing and blogging .

i think that is kinda a way to be happy person by improving urself and share what u read and learn....Will Power one of the topics maybe everyone everyday is thinking about it in most of daily aspects, i read this nice article id love to share it.

Tips On Empowering Your Will Power
by Jet Lag

The key to most successes in life is will power. Whether you are planning to embark on an extensive weight-loss program or you're simply trying to kick-off your smoking habit, you need to have will power. High powered executives and entrepreneurs are where they are now because of their will to reach the top and to stay there for the longest possible time that they can.

Essentially, will power is your ability to put into action a carefully planned vision. It taps your emotions and your minds infinite power to accomplish the goals you have set, be it dieting, quitting smoking, bagging a promotion, winning the next election, changing the world, writing a hit song, landing your dream acting role, etc. In most cases, it is the most important thing you would ever need because it highly predicts your plans success or failure.

Three steps are usually included in the application of your will power: (1) Goal-setting; (2) Planning a course of action; and (3) Execution. Most people fail to reach their goals because they fall short in number 3. What you should do is to devote a hefty amount of time with numbers 1 and 2 to make sure that your execution goes smoothly and that your will to achieve your goals will be followed through by specific actions. You would need to gather up all of your energy to make a huge thrust forward from number 2 to number 3 in order to prevail.

Will power can bring forth great things. Keep in mind, however, that will power can only push you up to a certain extent. Like gasoline in a fast running car, it will eventually get depleted. If you push too hard, you might end up falling off your track. For example, you might end up feeling too deprived from your diet that on your third week, you would already be having chocolate ice cream. You could have been too focused on getting that promotion that you have already neglected your relationship with your co-workers and worse, with your family. As with all things, you need to have control.

Aside from putting your mind into your set objectives, you need to make sure that your environment is conducive to achieving those. Clean your fridge before starting with that new diet plan. Organize your contacts and hire a more aggressive agent so you can land that dream role. It is all part of planning ahead and a way to conserve your will power. More importantly, it prevents you from losing momentum in what you've already done to get to your goals.

Will power is so important, but it is hard to maintain. It is your defense against temptations that would distract you from achieving your goal. It allows you to resist a fun late night-out with your friends to be in time for dinner with your family. It is what you have against smoking that one single stick that would have otherwise brought you back to where you started. Your will gives you the power to transcend difficulties, making them seem easy and worth going through, just to reach your goals. It is probably the most important thing followed only by the actual steps you take.

Looking at a larger perspective and placing it in the context of your entire life, your will power enables you to do as the classic lines from Invictus go. It allows you to be the master of your fate and to be captain of you soul. Surely, you'd want that.

Sand and Stone

A story tells that two friends were walking through the desert. During some point of the journey they had an argument, and one friend slapped the other one in the face. The one who got slapped was hurt, but without saying anything, wrote in the sand: "TODAY MY BEST FRIEND SLAPPED ME IN THE FACE."

They kept on walking until they found an oasis, where they decided to take a bath. The one, who had been slapped, got stuck in the mire and started drowning, but the friend saved him. After the friend recovered from the near drowning, he wrote on a stone: "TODAY MY BEST FRIEND SAVED MY LIFE."

The friend who had slapped and saved his best friend asked him, "After I hurt you, you wrote in the sand and now, you write on a stone, why?"

The other friend replied: "When someone hurts us, we should write it down in sand where winds of forgiveness can erase it away. But, when someone does something good for us, we must engrave it in stone where no wind can ever erase it."

LEARN TO WRITE YOUR HURTS IN THE SAND, AND TO CARVE YOUR BENEFITS IN STONE

Source:www.indianchild.com

LOVE

*Of all human passions Love is the strongest, for it attacks simaltaneously the head, the heart, and the senses

*You can always get someone to love you...even if you have to do it yourself.

*Friendship often ends in Love ;but Love in friendship ...Never (unknown)

*Love is the wisdom of the fool and the folly of the wise (Samuel Johnson)

*O, love, love, love ......Love is like a dizziness; it winnaet a poor body gang about his business(James Hogg)

*Love is the quest.... marriage the conquest..... divorce the inquest.

*A house is made of walls and beams; a home is built with Love and dreams.