RED

REDToday's color-of-the-day is red.

Red, as in Roll out the red carpetRoll out the red carpet for your friends, your wonderful friends who are with you through thick and thin, your friends who give you support, your friends who make you smile.

Roll out the red carpet for your family, your family who have been there since the beginning, your family who share much of your joys and your challenges, your family who will be there regardless of what you do.

Roll out the red carpet for yourself, your excellent self who is knows you as only you can, yourself who understands your hopes and fears and strengths and weaknesses, yourself who will be there with you until the very last day.Roll out the red carpet for the people who mean the most to you

May you live all the days of your life,

David Leonhardt,The Happy Guy

Hard Experience

Hi im back i hope u all had wonderful holidays i hope this year would be better for all and all our dreams come true

i was away from the bloggingsphere coz i lost my dear friend on 21 of Dec,2007 (I pray her soul rest in peace) i didnt want to blog about it i know all were having good times and preparing for holidyas i didnt want to spoil that ,even for a moment thats why i was away until it was the time to be back.

it was hard time for me i dont want to go back for details coz im getting better now after i felt like im not me for 10 days i was so much sad and depressed...that really broke my heart coz im gonna miss her so much and her little boys will miss her also alot.

this experience was weird to me i can hear about young people die for any reason i feel sad but coz i dunno them i just forget....but this time was totally different this situation has influenced my thoughts alot i know it happens to many people ...i feel like all life concepts have changed for me i never think about death or other life seriously ...but now i feel like i have to read alot about Religion and be close to God

my next Post is about the things that i have learned out of that hard experience i would like to share it very much and id love to know your opinions too

Thanks to all my friends and to your comments when i was away it really made me happy that u dont forget me even when i was away

Im optimistic....

My friend is doing a little bit better than before she feels us around but go unconcsious again its ok for me i accept that little prgogress .

water was removed from her lungs she breathing better than before .im optimistic i know she is not doing very very well but it can take days or months to be completely recovered

atleast im happing her health status moving forward not backward, i still have hope and prayers i feel she is gonna make it God is there thats enough for me

now im back to myself again after i was really so much stressed ....

I visited My Friend

i went to see my friend for the first time i couldnt see her not bcoz its not allwed bcoz i was emotinaly wrecked i met her family when i hugged her father he was crying and same with her sisters it was a hrd moment i felt dizzy and my legs were shaking i was not feeling that i can see her.

next day i went i saw her i talked to her i know she is still unconscious but i talked to her hoping that she maybe hearing me i told her "u were always strong and u have to be more strong and have faith and im sure u will overcome this and beat this situation your family and kids need u we all need u ...i love u"

but still she is in bad conditin even Doctors say it is so bad condition she needs a miracle to recover.....i believe that God will help her...he is the only one can do miracles. he is merciful too i believ whatever will happen is God'will we all have to accept what God wants.

all i can do these days are my prayers and my heart is with her. i feel im not able to do anything else.

Prayers to my dear friend

I was so excited this week one of my best friends had a baby boy , my best friends are 5 girls 2 of them since primary school and three since college. they are my sisters i dont have sisters i got only two brothers so i consider them my sisters we have very strong friendship that im so proud to have them in my life they are my childhood memories and my teenage memories we all been through everything together even we all got married in sequence and had kids same ages.
can u imagine how lucky we have eachother.

i went to visit her at hospital an congratulate her she was ok that was her second boy , today my firnd called and said that she is at Intensive Care coz she had Brain Thrombosis i was shocked i felt so much pain in my stomack i cried alot i fear that something could happen to her she is very good girl mom,daughter,wife , sister and friend she is so tender and kind very tender she lost her mom when she was a little girl i remember her once telling me when we were at college that she is going to be a great mother when she have kids and give them the best mother love and care that she was deprived from in her life....i remember when she calls all of our mothers on Motherday and bring them flowers and say they are all like my mother

she told me once im scared that i could die early some day and my son could face what i have faced and live his life with no mom ...OMG i cannot even type but i feel better sharing i want it all out she is in a comma now i pray that she recovers soon and get back to her 2 years old son and her new baby ohhh plz GOD save her and let her be better for her children's sake

me and my friends are in bad time its really hard time for us she is still 28 yrs old i pary GOD that you Bless her and save her plz she loves GOD so much she is a strong believer in GOD she prays knows her Islam and Quaran even when i used not to pray at college time she was the one who is behind me and tell me pary pray be close to GOD so GOD will be always there for u remeber GOD u will be surrounded with his Bless and Protection ....she is so goood

i love you dear so much my heart is with you i know u are strong and u will pass this hard time
my prayers and Doaa is with you

I Received Two Awards.....

My Friend Andrea ac associates is so generous really she awarded me two Awards at once im so much happy when i receive awards thats the Blogging good spirit to bond all together and encourage us to Blog more and still be there i consider this like Care and good friendships thats is so nice im loving it

Andrea's Blog is very special to me A Circle of Woman her posts and thoughts always inspires me and make me think more about myself as a woman and Human being.

Thanks Andrea for always remembering me im so much honored to have good Blogger friends like you and to have these two Awards

The first Award

The second Award

And now i would like to pass it to Good friends with and Great Blogs

1.Janice

2.Waterlearner

3.Gurushabad

4.Sam Chan

5.Darlene

6.Jean

7.Santa Claus

8.Zubli Zainordin

9.Life reflection

10.Haze

Congratulations my friends

Be Strong My Friend

i was away on vacation when i got back i found out about the loss of janice's Brother my best blogger buddy Janice i felt sorry and im really sad i know how she is going through is hard but i want you my friend to be strong

i would love to tell her that your brother was brave and strong to handle this pain and illness

and my prayers to him he is free now free of his pain he is in a GOD's hands which is the most safe and happy place for him

i know its hard but my heart with you janice my love too and my prayers to your brother he is not in pain anymore that could make u feel good for his own sake

Be Strong My Friend ....GOD BLESS

The Fight Against Child Abuse

In our times of darkness, children are the ones who will brighten us up. No matter what ordeals we have to endure in our daily lives, we know that we can overcome them the moment we set eyes on children. Their innocence and purity in them will always give us a sense of peacefulness and calm that is beyond words. And it goes without saying that life would be meaningless without seeing them smile, hearing them laugh and cry, and feeling their small and flawlessly gentle hands that want to reach out to us.


Yet, there are some who show no empathy and sensitivity towards these beautiful souls. Worse still, they would dunk themselves into physical violence and cruelty towards the children without even thinking twice. Such acts can deem someone to be worse than an animal, because even an animal has compassion and love for its young.

What is going on with this world? Why must such horrid acts be carried out? Why do these people ever exist in this world?





Please take this time to read this special message from us, and show your utmost support and sympathy towards the family of the late Nurin Jazlin, who passed away tragically and brutally at the age of only eight. Little Nurin Jazlin’s body was discovered in a gym bag on 17th September, one month after she was abducted.

Upon the discovery, she was seen to be in the most horrifying state ever. Her hair was short and curled up, when it was originally straight and long. Her body was pale and badly bruised from head to toe, and there were traces of foreign objects like brinjal and cucumber found in the virginal area of her body.
Parents of the deceased took a long time to acknowledge her death, but eventually did after all the thorough DNA tests had been carried out by the forensics department. Her body was finally buried on 21st September. Her father, Jazimin Abdul Jalil, had expressed his sorrow towards this tragedy, stating that whoever who caused her death was not a human being, but rather, an animal.

This was the result of an outrage of modesty (See Picture On The Right) caused by a man of age between 35 and 40, who was thought to be someone who enjoyed torturing people, particularly children. Along with him was a 23-year-old lady, who was apparently his partner in crime. The lady had been found and called for questioning by the Malaysian authorities, whereas the man has yet to be found. Hence, we are urging all of you here to play your part in finding this serial killer cum sexual offender and ensuring that justice is served to the deceased and her family.

If you know of the culprits’ whereabouts, keep us informed immediately, or directly inform her uncle, Jasni Abdul Jalil, via his blog, which he had specially created as a form of dedication to her.

Over the years, we have heard of children’s lives being taken away due to the evil doings of heartless adults. Nurin’s death was one of the most gruesome and tragic deaths that made many of us shocked, despaired and furious. Do you want more children to die in the hands of these sadistic people? Do you still wish to hear such saddening news of child abuse?
Then let us do our part right away! Together we can make this world a better place for the little ones. Let us all join hand in hand and put a stop to such cruelty towards them once and for all! Fight against child abuse today.We have created a logo to show our support towards the fight against child abuse. If you would like to join in this movement, please copy and paste this article in your site and place the logo. After displaying this article, leave us a comment and we will add your link in our list of bloggers who have voluntarily helped us in this movement.

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searching For Her Younger Sister

Please spare some time to read this post that we have written on behalf of a good friend of ours in the blogosphere. By reading this post and spreading the word to the others around you, you could reunite two people who shared an extraordinary relationship.

You could be the one to reunite two sisters.Her name is Jackie Hooper, also known as Shinade. Her biological mother was Maxine Soape, but a couple had adopted her.

According to her, besides her mother, she also had a younger sister as a family member. Just like her, her sister, who was born in 1959 or 1960 and is three years younger than her, had also been adopted out to another couple, by her own paternal uncle.Both were born in the same hometown of East Texas, but are now being adopted by two different couples and have been separated since then. The sister is currently staying with her adopted parents in Pueblo, Colorado.

Jackie has never stood a chance to watch her younger sister grow, and has never even known what her sister’s name is.As painful as it is to be worlds apart from your friends, it is even more painful to be worlds apart from your own flesh and blood.

So readers, we hope that you can show some sense of empathy towards Jackie ‘Shinade’ Hooper who longs to rebuild her life with her younger sister whom she holds very dear in her heart throughout the years.

This is your chance to do something good for someone in our global society who is in need of our helping hands.

If you can provide any information about Jackie’s sister that would be able to assist Jackie in her search, we urge you to keep us in the loop or directly inform Jackie at her blog. Your liberality towards helping out in this search would be greatly appreciated by all of us here, but the one who would be most thankful to you is Jackie herself.

A little kindness goes a long way. Readers, please show your compassion towards someone who wants nothing else but to reunite with her beloved younger sister once again. They share a strong kinship, and they deserve to be together till the end of time.

Please read this special message from our friend, Jackie, and start doing your part in finding her long lost sister.

“My only message would be that I would so like to have the opportunity to get to know her and her family. I know she has children also. And, that I love her even though I don't know who she is or where she is.” – Jackie ‘Shinade’ Hooper



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Few things about me & Two Awards

My Blogger friend Andrea has tagged me with 5 things u dont know about me meme im so much happy coz i really want my friends to know me better

1.im a house wife and mom.

2.i love to sing i always wanted to be a singer i used to sing at school parties.

3.im a big dreamer always live in my dreams. but most of them never came true...lol.

4.i love spicy food even at breakfast i can eat spicy food.

5.i trust people so quickly coz i feel i love all people from any where they come from. or who ever they are the main thing i love people with GOOD HEARTS & FEELINGS.

Most of my blogger friends have been tagged with the 5 meme list, so now anybody who is interested about posting 5 things to know him/her better is welcome just go ahead and i tag you.

I would love to thank Andrea for giving me a nice award i liked it alot its a ROCKIN' GIRL BLOGGER ... im so much happy with that thx andrea i always wanted to have this one ....:)
u rock too girl....:)

also my female friends got this award before looks like im the last one...:) ill keep it untill i meet new rocking girls bloggers.

The Zubli and Shinade Silver Recommended Read Award

it looks like this week im a lucky girl my second award i got today is really cool ,

Shinade and Zubli Zainordin, we have been reviewing again and this time we review bloggers whose blogs contain vital and valuable information to continuously raising us within the Blog World onto the next level of blogging enthusiasm, excitement, and enjoyment.

im so much impressed coz these two nice Bloggers think of my Blog that way these awards and Blogger Friends motivate and encourage me to good blogging and keeping me in the blogging sphere thx shinade and zubli for this valuable award.

Nice Matters Award

My best Blogger friend janice is very nice person very thoughtful always remember awarding me , she is a regular reader to my blog i thank her for that and for my other bloggers friends that also reads my blog all of u inspired me for blogging and motivates me more to find nice stuff we share all together


Thank you janice of thinking of me as anice person and by the way u deserve that award for 100 times not only five times coz you are a nice person and friend with many bloggers.

According to the originator of the Nice Matters award it is intended for “those that are just nice people,good blog friends, and those that inspire good feelings and inspiration! Those that care about others, that are there to lend support, or those that are just a positive influence in our blogging world!” For those receiving the award, you may like to pass on the award to 7 whom you think deserves it.

Now its my turn to reward the bloggers that are nice to me and inspire me, im glad to read their blogs i learn every day something new with your blogs thats a very nice and respectable communication with you coz we share true feelings and wise topics reminding me us to be better person.

Nice Matters Award goes to nice bloggers :

1) Janice ( im rewarding u back coz you are a true blogger friend and very nice to me im so happy that i met you and your lovely kids)

2)Gurushabad

3)Sam chan ( i know janice has rewared him but ill do it again coz he is nice to me too by visiting and leaving meaningful comments thx sam)

4)Waterlearner

5)Darlene

6)Ac associates

7)Zublizainordin

Congratulations to all of u wishing that blogging bond to last forever "nice bloggers"


A special thank to Zublizainordin he rewarded me back with the nice Award
see here

Third Blogging Award

Another award i got it yesterday from a a nice blogger who is known by everyone on my blog log is Zublizainordin thx alot for that award u really made me feel happy too my friend.

his message ..."soon your birthday. In honoring you as a superbly fine blogger, acknowledging your blogs and appreciating your sharing of vital and valuable information in your postings, please accept this award Zubli Zainordin"

im so lucky this week i got two awards thx to my friends , thx Zubli for your kind words that encourage me for more blogging ........You do have this gift and talent is the words and how to express and write your feelings and thoughts i always admired that talent GOD bless you ........ here where i found my award

i liked the badge too looks really nice

now i think i want to give some friends that award

i will start with my dear friend

1)Janice

2)Water Learner

3)Sam Chan

4)Darlene

5)AC Associates

6)santa claus

i think my friends are now lucky as i am they got two awards too this weekend

Second Blogging Award

My dear Friend Janice have awarded me as a Thoughtful Blogger this is my second award by Janice she is such a dear friend Lovely Mother , Friend and Young Lady im so happy for that award coz it shows the real meaning of Blogging is to meet new and honest friends .

im so happy Janice i met u and your adorable kids that i love them very much , i wanna tell u i appreciate everytime u remeber me or visit my blog leaving comments and shouts at my cbox , it is very clear to me how adorable and great woman you are by caring alot to your friends even if they are so much away from u ...for me that what i got out of blogging fun and cool friends

"that award i got it from janice few days ago but i didnt log on so sorry jan for not noticing."

i would love to award some other friends and cool bloggers too

1)Zublizainordin: one of the best bloggers ... total happiness ...if u want to learn more about you will be finding happiness there...he also give people happiness.

2)Gurushabad: his a very thoughtful blogger too he knows exactly what he is seeking for and gives many meaningful posts that i learn from everyday . he is a knowledge seeker ohis blog is one of my favorites full of wisdom.

3)Sam Chan: this another blog so inspiring and u can larn more about life there i love that blog too its where u can acquire wisdom and especially i love the quotes that was so common between me and sam chan.

4)Darlene: she is a sweet frined very simple and nice blog, she blogs about her daily life and whenever i read her posts i feel i get to know her more a woman of nice feelings and passionate.

5)AC Associates: one of the new blogs i met this month actually i loved it from the very first sight coz i felt the posts and what was written full of passion , honesty and i liked her style.

Congratulations to all ! You can find the complete details and meanings of the awards here.

My Friends

I consider my self so lucky to have good and true friends really its a bless, im with my friends almost 13 years ago since i was 14 years old ( wow very best time of my life i was not busy i hang out with them all the time) we are group of friends have different personalities we ofcourse have some common interests and have this magical bond between us.

in my whole life and different phases i have been through my close friends are always their helpful,loyal and make me happy and overcome hard times and i also did the same with them.

that is the beauty of living give and take and to be more happy give more and you will feel you dont need anything else but to make others happy (nice and innocent feelings)

back to what i was talking about friendship is very rare to find friends that you can love and trust but realy if u have found one dont loose it as you cannot buy true friendship with money do all your best to keep your good friend its important to have friends as eqaul as to have love in your life ( to me its like that maybe for othere love is most important)

Friendship lasts forever

Tips of being a friend

1.Treat your friends the way you want to be treated

2.Keep secrets that are told to you

3.Pay attention when your friend is talking

4.Be there when your friend needs you

5.Give your friend some of your time even if have a very busy life

6.keep your promises

7.Remember their birthdays

8.Be faithful,loyal,caring and honest (be fun too)

9.Love to your friend what you love to your self

10.Building up good and strong friendship is like building your own happiness in life

I am special. You are too. I am valuable as you.